苦口婆心

成語

［中］

苦口：反复规劝；婆心：仁慈的心肠。比喻善意而又耐心地劝导。

［英］

do one's best to convince sb.; admonishing words and kind feelings; advise in earnest words and with good intentions; earnestly and maternally; persuade sb. patiently; remonstrate earnestly; urge sb. time and again with good intentions; speak earnestly and patiently and with the best intention; talk like a Dutch uncle; warmhearted advice and encouragement; with kind and compassionate persuasion

［日］

老婆心から繰り返し忠告する．

［出典］

《宋史•赵普传》：“忠言苦口，三复来奏。”宋•释道原《景德传灯录•泉州道匡禅师》：“问：‘学人根思迟回，乞师曲运慈悲，开一线道。’师曰：‘这个是老婆心。’”

［歇面］

吃罢黄连劝儿媳

［用例］

• 我苦口婆心地劝说，可他根本听不进去。
• わたしは老婆心から繰り返し忠告しているが，彼はまったく聞き入れない．

［類義］

语重心长；

［反義］